Given the last year, I thought this one deserves an extra blessing for all. I hope everyone has room for one more wish from the Hayardenys…


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When we were here between 2006-2008, we frequented Carrefour. At the time, it was a reasonable shopping experience, reasonable lines at the cash registers, a good combination of Chinese and Western goods. It was our choice of supermarket. When we came back here in 2011, we naturally started shopping at Carrefour again. Compared to three years ago, it was very disappointing. The variety is reasonably the same, but the prices are much higher (not compared to three years ago, compared to other local stores), and the lines are ridiculous. Spend an hour collecting your groceries, and then another checking out. I mentioned it to a colleague who said we must try Metro. We did, and we’re hooked. Better variety, lower prices, no lines. I probably should have kept it a secret, but I’ll take my chances. If you live on the Northeastern part of Beijing, and you’re looking for a great grocery shopping experience, if there is such a thing, go to Metro. ![]() The United Nations (UN) organization is facing a very unique problem today, the application of Mahmud Abbas, the assumed representative of the Palestinian people, for independence, with full membership rights at the UN General Assembly. As an Israeli American who lives in China, I thought about it a lot in the past week (not to mention the preceding forty odd years…) and came to one sad conclusion. No matter what the outcome from the UN is, no winning party can be identified. Only several losers, with different level of loss. The assumption from the outset is that Mr. Abbas, Abu-Mazen, will go through with the application and will submit it to Ban Ki Moon, the UN Secretary General. If that’s not the case, some losers can already be identified. First and foremost, Mr. Abbas himself, for not carrying out his grand plan, for disappointing his people, for bending in front of the US. The second is the US, for twisting the hand of a people aspiring freedom and liberty, on which the US is based, to forsake their dream, at least for now. By the same token, France, and other European countries are losing credibility as future peace brokers between Israel and the Palestinians. The third is Israel, for succeeding in stalling any progress at all in resolving the issues in the Middle East albeit all interesting developments in the region (see Libya, Tunisia, Turkey, Egypt, Syria, Yemen, and the list is growing). In addition, Israel will have succeeded in isolating itself completely and thoroughly, more so than ever before. No winners here. Moving forward. The application is put in front of the Security Council and gets vetoed. Here I see a slight change in the order of losers. Here, Obama and the US win the title of number one losers. In this scenario, Obama basically isolates the United States of America from the rest of the entire world, siding with Israel completely, totally, unequivocally. And while some Israelis, as well as some Christians who see Israel as the Land of the Second Coming may see it as a victory, there will be billions, literally, of people who will absolutely not see it this way at all. Israel will lose again, naturally, as the pressure to continue the negotiations with the Palestinians will become a lot more significant, from ALL directions, the US included. Only now, neither the US nor the Europeans will be credible as peace brokers. The Palestinians may actually gain something in this scenario – recognition as underdog, and less denouncements for terrorist activities. Next. The application is put in front of the Security Council and goes through. Obama and the US lose as once again Netanyahu successfully put them in an unbearable place where they can’t possibly win. Netanyahu will have succeeded once again to embarrass the President of the Free World, and the virtually only Superpower. Israel loses here for embarrassing a US president, for having a Palestinian State with no negotiations on borders. The Palestinian lose here for very strange two reasons: the first is that Abbas will now have to convince Hamas that Gaza is part of the new Palestinian State (who will govern, how, are valid questions here). The second is even stranger: with Statehood comes responsibility. With independence comes responsibility as well. Abbas will be expected to make sure he’s in control of his People, and their weapons. He will also be responsible to provide a viable economy. A state cannot be dependent on donations for a long time. And here’s my opinion. A Palestinian State is better for Israel than an American veto. Here’s why. A Palestinian State will most likely cause the realization among some (certainly not all) Israelis, that there’s a new situation here that must be dealt with. Some pragmatic people (Netanyahu, Liberman, other right wingers excluded) will recognize the strategic need to resolve the situation even at an expensive cost, which translates into giving up land, reconsidering borders (no refugee return into the newly defined borders of Israel, this is a suicide on the Israeli side and will never pass, right or left. It’s time the Palestinians understand it and climb down that tree). Peace with the Palestinians has (at least) a fair chance of calming down this war stricken region. I hope the outcome today will be: application submitted, no American veto, understanding on the Israeli side that a Palestinian state is a good thing for Israel, and understanding on the Palestinian side that with Statehood and Independence comes significant responsibility: to their people, to their neighbors, to the world. If I am correct here (most likely not), I will personally congratulate all parties tomorrow. If I am wrong, well, I keep the right to remain optimistic. Optimism is still free in most countries. P.S. If you are a right wing Israeli, and want to tag me as extreme left, don’t bother. I am not. Never was, never will be. I simply want to live in peace, and willing to compromise for it. ![]() Another year went by. Another year with a lot of events. Some registered in my mind as big ones. From a personal viewpoint there were two major events in my life this last year. My father’s deterioration, and our move back into China. Back in 2008 we moved back to Israel because my father’s health was getting worse, and we thought we should be close to him. It’s 2011 and our presence is no longer relevant to his health. Moving back to China and into Microsoft made me understand that I have returned to China a different person. I’m more mature (not only chronologically). I have more patience. But most importantly, working at Microsoft I learned that my experience is valued, and that I can still make significant contributions to technology. From a family viewpoint, we celebrated Shiri’s Bat Mitzvah this year (the Jewish ritualistic girl’s twelfth birthday). Keren is doing well in her studies at Rutgers. She is pretty as she is charming and clever. Not too many things compare to having a real, adult, insightful conversation with your own child. Tamary is absolutely gorgeous, happy, smart and successful almost sixteen year old girl, who has enough happiness to spread around to all who know her. Shiri is becoming a well-adjusted, pretty, charming, multi-lingual young woman, who has a strong and inquisitive personality, brilliant and very sociable (wishful thinking: less Facebook, more books). Guy, about whom we were very concerned before moving to China again, turned out loving his new teacher (thank you Ms. Schellenberg), and making friends quickly. He has a long way mastering English, but he undoubtedly is well on his way. Dorit, as usual, found her place in the Jewish/Israeli community in Beijing in no time. She teaches full time, and she already acquired countless friends and acquaintances. (thanks Dorit and happy birthday). From an Israeli viewpoint, I have to admit I have my concerns. The Israeli inability to advance even an inch in peace talks with the Palestinians, combined with the Arab Spring (or uprising, depending on who you ask) put Israel in an extremely isolated and dangerous place in the Middle East. With Turkey turning its back on Israel, Tunisia, Egypt, Libya, Syria turned upside down, Lebanon in Hizbullah’s hands, Jordan, Qatar hanging on a thread and Palestine this close to being recognized as an independent state, I am worried, really worried. And the world: a literal Tsunami in Japan, and an economic one almost everywhere else – unemployment rising, GDP slowing to a standstill, banks going under, governments and countries going bankrupt. Doesn’t look good, you have to admit. The weather is a mess, and most likely it’s related to something we, humans are doing. In short, not a great year. Not to me, not to Israel, not to the world or the planet. So may I wish upon all of us the following. May we all enjoy good health, and may we draw little gulps of joy from all possible directions, no matter how small they are. May the world be engulfed with some sense and sensibility to stop wars, famine, and greed. The rest will take care of himself. May my father recover, and may he have his autumn years smile at him as the spring ones did. May we all be just a tiny bit happier than we were last year. Happy Jewish New Year to all of you, to you and yours. May we all meet here next year to share experiences about the upcoming Jewish new year. Happy 5772 from the Chinese section of the Hayardeny family… ![]() After almost two months by myself in a small apartment, and almost three months in corporate housing at the Oakwood , we finally moved into our own apartment in Beijing. Not too far from where we lived previously, close to the Canadian International School of Beijing, close to the LiDo Holiday Inn Hotel of Beijing, close to Chaoyang Park (北京 朝 阳 公园), the largest park in Beijing. In short, we live in the northeastern part of the city, close to the Forth Ring Road, the Israeli and the American embassies, and many friends. It’s good to be home again, no matter how far it is from home. Being the world travelers we are, home is wherever we lay our hats (like the famous song. In any case, unpacking the container is nightmarish. Learning to live for months without your things, and suddenly getting them all back at once is a strange experience. Particularly since our collective tendencies is to “fill up spaces”. Back at the Oakwood, as it turns out, we got some stuff. So we went in there straight from the airport with four large, very large suitcases, but somehow we left with six of them plus countless small bags, plastic bags, six gold fish and a fish tank (?), and a most certainly heavier dog. I heard people get chubby in China, I never knew dogs do too. The container, mind you, contained the screened, filtered, weeded out contents of a sizable, two story house in Binyamina. It was unloaded into a reasonably sized, three bedroom apartment, one story apartment in Beijing. It was like force fitting a size 12 foot into a size 8 shoe. Plus, our kitchen in Binyamina was about three times bigger, and with much more storage space. Plus, this apartment had two closets only. In short, we had a lot of cardboard boxes with no room to unpack them to. As I said, nightmarish. We started off small. We went to Man’s Second Best Friend (first if you are a traveler) – Ikea, and got ourselves a cabinet so we can at least unpack some of the kitchenware. During the week, we all realized that a second visit is a must. As we agreed that I never setting foot at the King of Junk again (I made that vow several times in the past), Dorit went to Ikea on her own. She ordered a commode for Guy’s room (a commode is a big name for Swedish piece of glued-pressed-sawdust, same as a King is a large word for a homeless beggar). She also ordered two more cabinets like the one she already ordered, and some extra shelves. Ikea is very punctual. When they say they will deliver at 16:30, they always give you a call three hours earlier to say that they are already there with their screwdrivers at hand ready to assemble the furniture you ordered (furniture, big word, King, Beggar, etc.). But up to now, it was all expected. We’re not proud of it, but Ikea had been part of our lives. It’s a reasonable solution for throwaway “furniture”. We buy them, use them for a couple of years, and in most cases, we don’t even bother to pack them when we move on to the next place. The real furniture we have: heavy, Italian, solid wood and leather furniture, we keep. Ikea recycles. But this time we had a surprise. A big one. In fact, two big surprises. The “commode” came in just fine, as did the extra shelves. But the cabinets were missing. Instead, came two monstrous book cases, and two cabinets with doors. A scene started. Dorit tried desperately to explain to the three poor guys that this wasn’t what she ordered. Finally, they understood, and suggested that we take it to the store and replace it. At this point I said absolutely no way. We looked around the house and found a way to accommodate the changes. To make a long story short, the new arrangement was far better than the original plan. It created a lot more storage space, and we are much happier today than we were a day before. Two lessons learned. Bad surprises may actually be good if you have an open mind, and patience prevails. The other lessons I learned already when they opened the first Ikea in the United States of America – in Elizabeth New Jersey: a small percentage of what you buy at Ikea is actually OK, and the forced march between the store entrance and the exit is a constant. Once you set foot in the store, you have to complete the journey with ten thousand happy women and miserable men, just like you… Bottom line: we’re home again, with (mostly) our own furniture, and a few transient pieces of junk we purchased last week. Our stuff from home may actually join us for the next move. The latest purchases will most likely be buried in China. ![]() |
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